Scripture:
“Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ.” – Ephesians 4:15 (NIV)
Authentic relationships are the soil where discipleship takes root. When people feel safe, known, and loved, they open up to transformation. And real growth starts to happen—not just on Sunday mornings, but in the everyday moments of life.
Authenticity doesn’t mean we have it all together. It means we’re honest about where we are and where we’re trusting Jesus to take us. We don’t disciple people by pretending to be perfect. We disciple by being real—real about our struggles, our sin, our need for grace, and our hope in Christ.
People, especially students and young adults, can spot fake a mile away. What they long for are relationships where they’re not judged or overlooked, but where they’re challenged to grow. That takes courage. It also takes patience and time.
Relational discipleship asks us to live with a balance of grace and truth. We don’t ignore sin, but we also don’t weaponize truth. We walk with people, pointing them to Jesus—not to our expectations, but to His calling.
Reflection Questions:
Who are the people you trust most? What made those relationships feel safe and honest?
How can you cultivate that kind of trust in your discipleship relationships?
Where do you need to let your guard down so others can truly see Christ in you?